Wednesday, February 17, 2010

When are you the asshole?

My feelings get hurt pretty easily, so I'm generally gentle with the feelings of others.

I don't like to intentionally hurt anyone. Unless they truly deserve it. Before passing judgement and getting upset, I ask myself- was that person being intentionally hurtful toward me? If not, I am passive. I understand that people make mistakes, misjudgements, are hurried or upset at something that has nothing to do with me.

Sometimes, I'm that "asshole" doing something to unintentionally hurt someone else. I apologize and mean it when I realize I've done this. And when I find that I've forgotten to be sweet to someone, I apologize. It's the right thing to do.

Being an asshole to people may make me feel better in the moment, but it's not worth the lasting hurt that it can cause to someone else. I wish more people, specifically those who come in contact with me, would consider the feelings of others before taking action and passing judgement. And calling names. Ouch.

4 comments:

sid said...

Just read a blog post were the author was complaining that everyone also adds a but to their apology. I did it because ... No one ever just says sorry.

Le Meems said...

hahahahahahaha
Hey Asshole

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Rassles said...

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I mean, ASIAN CHARACTERS I THINK ARE MOST LIKELY ABOUT PORN.

Asshole.